This is the Ayah of Hijab, which includes several legislative rulings and
points of etiquette. This is one of the cases where the revelation confirmed the
opinion of `Umar bin Al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, as it was
reported in the Two Sahihs that he said: "My view coincided with that of my Lord
in three things. I said, `O Messenger of Allah, why do you not take Maqam
Ibrahim as a place of prayer' Then Allah revealed:
[وَاتَّخِذُواْ مِن
مَّقَامِ إِبْرَهِيمَ مُصَلًّى]
(And take you (people) the Maqam (place) of Ibrahim as a place of prayer)
(2:125) And I said, `O Messenger of Allah, both righteous and immoral people
enter upon your wives, so why do you not screen them' Then Allah revealed the
Ayah of Hijab. And I said to the wives of the Prophet when they conspired
against him out of jealousy,
[عَسَى رَبُّهُ إِن
طَلَّقَكُنَّ أَن يُبْدِلَهُ أَزْوَجاً خَيْراً مِّنكُنَّ]
(It may be if he divorced you (all) that his Lord will give him instead of
you, wives better than you) (66:5), and this is what Allah revealed.'' In a
report recorded by Muslim, the prisoners of Badr are mentioned, and this is a
fourth matter (in which the view of `Umar coincided with that of his Lord).
Al-Bukhari recorded that Anas bin Malik said: "`Umar bin Al-Khattab said: `O
Messenger of Allah, both righteous and immoral people enter upon you, so why not
instruct the Mothers of the believers to observe Hijab' Then Allah revealed the
Ayah of Hijab.'' Al-Bukhari recorded that Anas bin Malik, may Allah be pleased
with him, said: "When the Messenger of Allah married Zaynab bint Jahsh, he
invited the people to eat, then they sat talking. When he wanted to get up, they
did not get up. When he saw that, he got up anyway, and some of them got up, but
three people remained sitting. The Prophet wanted to go in, but these people
were sitting, then they got up and went away. I came and told the Prophet that
they had left, then he came and entered. I wanted to follow him, but he put the
screen between me and him. Then Allah revealed,
[يأَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ
ءَامَنُواْ لاَ تَدْخُلُواْ بُيُوتَ النَّبِىِّ إِلاَّ أَن يُؤْذَنَ لَكُمْ إِلَى
طَعَامٍ غَيْرَ نَـظِرِينَ إِنَـهُ وَلَـكِنْ إِذَا دُعِيتُمْ فَادْخُلُواْ فَإِذَا
طَعِمْتُمْ فَانْتَشِرُواْ]
(O you who believe! Enter not the Prophet's houses, unless permission is
given to you for a meal, (and then) not (so early as) to wait for its
preparation. But when you are invited, enter, and when you have taken your meal,
disperse...)'' Al-Bukhari also recorded this elsewhere. It was also recorded by
Muslim and An-Nasa'i. Then Al-Bukhari recorded that Anas bin Malik said: "The
Prophet married Zaynab bint Jahsh with (a wedding feast of) meat and bread. I
sent someone to invite people to the feast, and some people came and ate, then
left. Then another group came and ate, and left. I invited people until there
was no one left to invite. I said, `O Messenger of Allah, I cannot find anyone
else to invite.' He said,
«ارْفَعُوا
طَعَامَكُم»
(Take away the food.) There were three people left who were talking in the
house. The Prophet went out until he came to the apartment of `A'ishah, may
Allah be pleased with her, and he said,
«السَّلَامُ
عَلَيْكُمْ أَهْلَ الْبَيْتِ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه»
(May peace be upon you, members of the household, and the mercy and blessings
of Allah.) She said, `And upon you be peace and the mercy of Allah. How did you
find your (new) wife, O Messenger of Allah May Allah bless you.' He went round
to the apartments of all his wives, and spoke with them as he had spoken with
`A'ishah, and they spoke as `A'ishah had spoken. Then the Prophet came back, and
those three people were still talking in the house. The Prophet was extremely
shy, so he went out and headed towards `A'ishah's apartment. I do not know
whether I told him or someone else told him when the people had left, so he came
back, and when he was standing with one foot over the threshold and the other
foot outside, he placed the curtain between me and him, and the Ayah of Hijab
was revealed.'' This was recorded only by Al-Bukhari among the authors of the
Six Books, apart from An-Nasa'i, in Al-Yaum wal-Laylah.
[لاَ تَدْخُلُواْ
بُيُوتَ النَّبِىِّ]
(Enter not the Prophet's houses,) the believers were prohibited from entering
the houses of the Messenger of Allah without permission, as they used to do
during the Jahiliyyah and at the beginning of Islam, until Allah showed His
jealousy over this Ummah and commanded them to seek permission. This is a sign
of His honoring this Ummah. Hence the Messenger of Allah said:
«إِيَّاكُمْ
وَالدُّخُولَ عَلَى النِّسَاء»
(Beware of entering upon women...) Then Allah makes an exception, when He
says:
[إِلاَّ أَن يُؤْذَنَ
لَكُمْ إِلَى طَعَامٍ غَيْرَ نَـظِرِينَ إِنَـهُ]
(unless permission is given to you for a meal, (and then) not (so early as)
to wait for its preparation.) Mujahid, Qatadah and others said: "This means,
without waiting for the food to be prepared.'' In other words, do not watch the
food as it is being cooked to see if it is nearly ready, then come and enter the
house, because this is one of the things that Allah dislikes and condemns. This
indicates that it is forbidden to watch out for food being prepared, which is
what the Arabs called Tatfil (being an uninvited guest). Al-Khatib Al-Baghdadi
wrote a book condemning those who watch out for food being prepared, and
mentioned more things about this topic than we can quote here. Then Allah says:
[وَلَـكِنْ إِذَا
دُعِيتُمْ فَادْخُلُواْ فَإِذَا طَعِمْتُمْ فَانْتَشِرُواْ]
(But when you are invited, enter, and when you have taken your meal,
disperse) In Sahih Muslim it is recorded that Ibn `Umar, may Allah be pleased
with him, said: "The Messenger of Allah said:
«إِذَا دَعَا
أَحَدُكُمْ أَخَاهُ فَلْيُجِبْ عُرْسًا كَانَ أَوْ غَيْرَه»
(When anyone of you invites his bother, let him respond, whether it is for a
wedding or for any other reason.)'' Allah says:
[وَلاَ
مُسْتَأْنِسِينَ لِحَدِيثٍ]
(without sitting for a talk.) meaning, as those three people did who stayed
behind and chatted, and forgot themselves to such an extent that this caused
inconvenience for the Messenger of Allah as Allah says:
[إِنَّ ذَلِكُمْ
كَانَ يُؤْذِى النَّبِىِّ فَيَسْتَحْيِى مِنكُمْ]
(Verily, such (behavior) annoys the Prophet, and he is shy of (asking) you
(to go);) It was said that what was meant was, your entering his houses without
permission causes him inconvenience and annoyance, but he did not like to forbid
them to do so because he felt too shy,' until Allah revealed that this was
forbidden. Allah says:
[وَاللَّهُ لاَ
يَسْتَحْىِ مِنَ الْحَقِّ]
(but Allah is not shy of (telling you) the truth.) meaning, `this is why He
is forbidding and prohibiting you from doing that.' Then Allah says:
[وَإِذَا
سَأَلْتُمُوهُنَّ مَتَـعاً فَاسْـَلُوهُنَّ مِن وَرَآءِ حِجَابٍ]
(And when you ask (his wives) for anything you want, ask them from behind a
screen,) meaning, `just as it is forbidden for you to enter upon them, it is
forbidden for you to look at them at all. If anyone of you has any need to take
anything from them, he should not look at them, but he should ask for whatever
he needs from behind a screen.'